Who are Your Wisdom Figures?

By Susan Flansburg

Early on in my career as communications director for a wonderful community of Benedictine Sisters, I had difficulty coming up with stories to write for their newsletter.

My then-prioress, Sister Phyllis McMurray, suggested I write about wisdom figures.

What a thought- and heart-provoking topic it turned out to be. Still is, for me.

(While that particular story never made it to the web, another wisdom story did.)

Today, I can go at least 2 ways with it.

For one, I can list people who have been steadying presences in my life, generous with guidance, dependable. Mom, Dad, many loving relatives and friends. All my pets, of course.

For another, I can explore other places I’ve found wisdom … even from those who never intended to guide me.

Although I don’t call on those unintentional wisdom figures in my daily life - and do call on my Communion of Saints regularly - I am drawn to consider their teachings:

The small, injured bird that grew my Grinchy heart.

The friend who withdrew her friendship without explanation, calling me to reflect on the ways I might have hurt her.

The strangers offering - and accepting - help. (Last week, a wonderful young man worked for half an hour to get our car restarted … just because.)

This poem says it all. It’s from the 13th century poet, Rumi:

The Guest House

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice.
meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.
Be grateful for whatever comes.
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

Who are your wisdom figures?